
I am really enjoying this book and am being challenged by its call to live the cross.
The second section deals with what it means to live out the “tiny martyrdoms” of taking up the cross daily. Tim sees five “Ss” in what it means to take up the cross: sacrifice, submission, self-denial, service and suffering. After showing through the life of Jesus, the writings and lives of Paul, Peter and John how the cross shaped them in chapter five, chapter six provides a practical list of what this looks like for us today. Tim replaces the WWJD mnemonic with WDIMTFTWOTC -”What does it mean to follow the way of the cross? Don’t know about fitting that on a necklace never mind a bracelet, but what follows is a helpful list of NT pastoral quotes for questions like “What does the practice of the cross mean when someone wrongs me?” Eph 4:32, “What does the practice of the cross mean when I open my wallet? 2Cor 8:7,9)” What does the practice of the cross mean when my family asks why I’ve not pursued a career like other people? Gal 6:14″ and so on. It grounds the cross of Christ in everyday life.
What makes this section so helpful is how Tim illustrates that everyday martyrdom is the incremental, but often significant steps we take towards dying to self and living to others. Tim is painfully honest with his illustrations – most of them inform us of his shortcomings, though the most memorable and challenging refers to someone else:
I remember a missionary visiting us, someone who’d moved across continents. That’s a big choice to make for you and your family. But he never did the small things. He never offered to help with washing-up; never cleared the table. It made me wonder whether he’d crossed continents because he treasured Christ or because he treasured his reputation. (p63)
Ouch! But an easy trap to fall in to.
But Tim is not advocating a stiff upper lip stoicism in this book. He devotes a chapter to valuing, and the value of, Christ for who he is and how wonderful he is; what a difference treasuring Christ makes to our mini martyrdoms.Within that context in chapter eight he does a great job of picking apart the sanctified self-centredness we often see in church in which finding out my gifts becomes an almost obsessive preoccupation instead of getting on with serving others, in which the losing of ourselves in service is the finding of ourselves.We have so easily tapped into the “self-help” syndrome that we baptise it in our discipleship instead of killing it!
In case you’re feeling crushed by this – don’t! Tim finishes the section helpfully by reminding us that
The way of the cross will crush you if you don’t embrace the pardon of the cross. And that’s not just valid for back then, when you first went to God for forgiveness. But day by day by day. Every morning we need to wake up and say, ‘There is now no condemnation.’ Actually it’s easy to do this in the morning. You need to do it in the evening. You need to do it when you sin. When you look with lust. When you lose your temper. When you don’t show sacrificial love. You need to say, ‘There is now no condemnation.’ (pp88-89)
Perhaps what I have enjoyed most about reading this book is in the recognition of some of the people, places and events that Tim talks about when he gives personal illustrations. They say nostalgia isn’t what it used to be, but having spent a considerable amount of time with Tim and the other leaders in The Crowded House, the language and drive of this book is no surprise to me: I saw how intentionally they were being shaped, and in turn shaped others, by this cruciform life.
More in the next couple of days.
written by Steve
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