
The Local is still very much a church with “L” plates on. We’re still coming to terms with what it means to try and do life together and be a community in mission. The fact that most of us are all a little older with a few years of life/work/marriage behind us means that we have a little more to learn, or – more to the point – to unlearn.
What things do I think we need to unlearn? Here are two for starters.
1. My family is an island
This is sacrosanct in our culture.; perhaps no man is an island, but the family unit has taken its place. The privatised suburban family takes precedence over everything. Now we are not saying that the family unit is not important, but there is a tendency when we are busy and stressed with life to shut others out of our lives instead of allowing others to serve us in all of the busyness and see us “warts and all”. We need to realise that St Paul didn’t pluck the metaphor of family out of the air to help people understand the church a little better, rather our human families are a shadow of which the family of God is the eternal reality. We really need to unlearn the culture’s obsession with the privatised individualistic family unit.
2. “Church” meetings make up for not spending time with each other during the week
When we are busy we think that the “Sunday gig” will make up for not seeing each other during the week. It doesn’t. It simply creates a situation where we try to cram relationships into a couple of hours. Not only that, we come to view the “meeting” as somehow more spiritual than the rest of our times together. In reality we should be “gospelling” each other all of the time in whatever context. I have to say I am heartened by the way we are growing to realise this and we are making adjustments to our lives and starting to spend time together in unplanned and unstructured ways.
The New Testament communities are all in various stages of unlearning. Have a look at this passage from 1 Corinthians 6
9Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders 10nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
So much of 1 Corinthians is about Paul helping the Corinthians unlearn the culture/mores/social norms/sin of Corinth. But notice what he grounds their unlearning in – their new identity. The key words are “that is what some of you were.” Unlearning by us is dependent on something happening to us. As the passage makes clear it is the new identity in Christ fuelled by the power of the Spirit that enables learning – indeed it is the only basis upon which Paul can call for change. Now I am not about to compare the privatised family unit with the list of sins above. but perhaps that’s just the point. Unlearning some of the apparently “good” stuff often requires more work as these may be our blindspots.
Can we unlearn things that are deeply ingrained in us culturally and socially? The same power that raised Christ from the dead will enable us to do so.

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